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Your Grace Period Starts Now

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 Unlock your team’s full potential and achieve extraordinary growth.

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Alan's message was compelling, deeply practical, insightful and personally moving. I walked away feeling both inspired and equipped to lead with more compassion and conviction. I highly recommend bringing Alan in if you're looking to create meaningful cultural shifts in your organization.


Caitlin C., Manager

Organizations Alan Has Served

Fanatical Grace™

The Framework for Human-Centered High Performance

Too many teams are running on fear, forced performance, and burnout disguised as ambition. But it doesn’t have to be this way.


Fanatical Grace™ is my leadership framework designed to transform toxic patterns into thriving cultures—without sacrificing results.


Built from 25 years in HR leadership—and forged in the fires of real-world pressure—this model challenges the flawed belief that performance and people are at odds.


At its core are three imperfect but powerful leadership shifts:

  • 🔧 From Fixing to Forging
    Let go of control and start building with your team—not at them.
     
  • 🔨 From Forcing to Flowing
    Ditch the pressure tactics. Create momentum through clarity, trust, and aligned energy.
     
  • 🔓 From Fearing to Freeing
    Stop leading from fear. Start creating space for creativity, ownership, and courageous accountability.
     

This is more than a framework. It’s a movement—redefining what it means to lead well.

How I Bring Fanatical Grace™ to Life

Keynote Speaking

Workshops for Teams

Workshops for Teams

Transforming Toxic Workplaces: 

3 Shifts for Thriving Teams


This high-impact keynote introduces the Fanatical Grace™ framework and gives leaders the mindset and tools to transform toxic patterns into a culture where people and performance thrive.


Ideal for leadership events, offsites, and conferences.

Workshops for Teams

Workshops for Teams

Workshops for Teams

The Grace Advantage


In this interactive team experience, we explore the 3 core shifts of Fanatical Grace, identify hidden culture traps, and build a custom blueprint to drive trust, collaboration, and performance.


Available as half-day, full-day, or virtual.

Leadership Coaching

Workshops for Teams

Leadership Coaching

Grace-Based Growth for Founders & Executives


Through private coaching, with the CliftonStrengths and my proprietary Fix–Force–Fear Assessments, I help leaders unlock their natural leadership style, lead with humanity under pressure, and scale with clarity and confidence.


Limited availability. By application only.

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Meet Alan

I’m Alan Derek Utley—HR executive, speaker, and culture crafter on a mission to spark transformative growth by creating space for humanity at work.

For 25 years, I helped organizations—from scrappy startups to global corporations—lead through crisis, fix broken cultures, and unlock performance under pressure. I’ve supported frontlines and C-suites alike. I’ve been in the rooms where trust breaks, morale sinks, and leaders freeze. 


And I’ve helped rebuild those rooms.


But the real shift started with a crisis of my own—one that showed me how powerful work can be when leaders stop performing and start showing up with grace. That moment led to a 30-day deep dive into what makes a team thrive. And it became the foundation of Fanatical Grace™—my leadership framework that helps people lead better without losing themselves in the process.


Today, I speak, coach, and lead workshops to help leaders:

  • Build high-performing teams without burnout
  • End toxic patterns before they start
  • Make space for accountability and humanity
     

If you’re ready to lead differently—start here.

"Not only was the topic of grace relevant to our team, but your delivery had a profound impact. You paved the way for deeper conversations and connection throughout the day. You truly are one of a kind."


Clarissa F., Executive Director

Take the Fix–Force–Fear Assessment

When pressure hits, your leadership defaults kick in. But are they serving you—or sabotaging your team?


The Fix–Force–Fear Assessment is a free, fast self-assessment that helps you uncover your default leadership pattern and where you have room to grow.


You’ll learn:

  • What’s behind your instinct to fix, force, or fear your way through leadership challenges
  • How to shift toward more intentional, grace-based leadership
  • Where to start making space for growth—in yourself and your team


Already used by founders, executives, and HR leaders to spark meaningful change.

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What Others Are Saying

Fanatical Grace™ isn’t just inspiring—it’s practical, transformative, and rooted in real-world leadership. Whether I’m speaking to a room of founders, coaching a senior leader, or guiding a team through culture change, the impact is lasting. Here’s what people have said after experiencing the work firsthand:

A career-defining moment

Like therapy for my career

Like therapy for my career

“Alan was instrumental in transforming my approach to leadership. He has this special ability to challenge you to improve while building your confidence. I look back on my time working with Alan as a true career-defining moment.”
— Daniel L., Sr. Director

Like therapy for my career

Like therapy for my career

Like therapy for my career

"Career coaching with Alan was fantastic. Like therapy for my career.”
— Chelsea F., Director

Ease of conversation

Like therapy for my career

Ease of conversation

"Alan is easy to talk to. And he's great at making sure you are accomplishing what you want to accomplish. This was one of my first coaching experiences, challenging at times, but without intimidation and an ease of conversation that felt more like talking to a friend"

— Gary S., Chief Technology Officer

Like a TED Talk

For today's culture

Ease of conversation

"Alan’s talk felt more like a TED Talk"

— Joanna H., Chief People Officer

Instant rapport

For today's culture

For today's culture

"Alan is a highly gifted speaker who instantly establishes rapport with his audience"

— Kevin G., Professor

For today's culture

For today's culture

For today's culture

"Very valuable and important 

information for today’s culture."

— Kaitlyn L., HR Leader

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Alan in the Media

On Fanatical Grace: The Leadership Shift That Detoxifies Workplaces

In this Small Brave Moves podcast episode, I talk with Nicole Bianchi about what it really takes to detoxify a workplace and lead with courage and Fanatical Grace. I share lessons from 25 years in HR—how I made the move from perfectionism to authenticity, and from conflict to connection. Grace isn’t soft; it’s a bold choice to lead with empathy, hold space for imperfection, and create cultures where people thrive. 

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Transform Your Workplace Culture


In this compelling keynote, discover how to transform toxic workplace culture into an environment where both people and profits thrive. Perfect for CEOs, HR leaders, and managers seeking to boost engagement while driving bottom-line results.

What Does it Take to be Extraordinary in Business?

We explored this question and more on the Let's Talk Business Podcast.

Let's build something better together.

If you're ready to lead differently—or just curious about what Fanatical Grace™ could do for your team—let’s connect. I’d love to hear what you’re building and how I can help.

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