
Your Grace Period Starts Now
Unlock your team’s full potential and achieve extraordinary growth.
Unlock your team’s full potential and achieve extraordinary growth.
Caitlin C., Manager
Too many teams are running on fear, forced performance, and burnout disguised as ambition. But it doesn’t have to be this way.
Fanatical Grace™ is my leadership framework designed to transform toxic patterns into thriving cultures—without sacrificing results.
Built from 25 years in HR leadership—and forged in the fires of real-world pressure—this model challenges the flawed belief that performance and people are at odds.
At its core are three imperfect but powerful leadership shifts:
This is more than a framework. It’s a movement—redefining what it means to lead well.
Transforming Toxic Workplaces:
3 Shifts for Thriving Teams
This high-impact keynote introduces the Fanatical Grace™ framework and gives leaders the mindset and tools to transform toxic patterns into a culture where people and performance thrive.
Ideal for leadership events, offsites, and conferences.
The Grace Advantage
In this interactive team experience, we explore the 3 core shifts of Fanatical Grace, identify hidden culture traps, and build a custom blueprint to drive trust, collaboration, and performance.
Available as half-day, full-day, or virtual.
Grace-Based Growth for Founders & Executives
Through private coaching, with the CliftonStrengths and my proprietary Fix–Force–Fear Assessments, I help leaders unlock their natural leadership style, lead with humanity under pressure, and scale with clarity and confidence.
Limited availability. By application only.
For 25 years, I helped organizations—from scrappy startups to global corporations—lead through crisis, fix broken cultures, and unlock performance under pressure. I’ve supported frontlines and C-suites alike. I’ve been in the rooms where trust breaks, morale sinks, and leaders freeze.
And I’ve helped rebuild those rooms.
But the real shift started with a crisis of my own—one that showed me how powerful work can be when leaders stop performing and start showing up with grace. That moment led to a 30-day deep dive into what makes a team thrive. And it became the foundation of Fanatical Grace™—my leadership framework that helps people lead better without losing themselves in the process.
Today, I speak, coach, and lead workshops to help leaders:
If you’re ready to lead differently—start here.
Clarissa F., Executive Director
When pressure hits, your leadership defaults kick in. But are they serving you—or sabotaging your team?
The Fix–Force–Fear Assessment is a free, fast self-assessment that helps you uncover your default leadership pattern and where you have room to grow.
You’ll learn:
Already used by founders, executives, and HR leaders to spark meaningful change.
Fanatical Grace™ isn’t just inspiring—it’s practical, transformative, and rooted in real-world leadership. Whether I’m speaking to a room of founders, coaching a senior leader, or guiding a team through culture change, the impact is lasting. Here’s what people have said after experiencing the work firsthand:
“Alan was instrumental in transforming my approach to leadership. He has this special ability to challenge you to improve while building your confidence. I look back on my time working with Alan as a true career-defining moment.”
— Daniel L., Sr. Director
"Career coaching with Alan was fantastic. Like therapy for my career.”
— Chelsea F., Director
"Alan is easy to talk to. And he's great at making sure you are accomplishing what you want to accomplish. This was one of my first coaching experiences, challenging at times, but without intimidation and an ease of conversation that felt more like talking to a friend"
— Gary S., Chief Technology Officer
"Alan’s talk felt more like a TED Talk"
— Joanna H., Chief People Officer
"Alan is a highly gifted speaker who instantly establishes rapport with his audience"
— Kevin G., Professor
"Very valuable and important
information for today’s culture."
— Kaitlyn L., HR Leader
In this Small Brave Moves podcast episode, I talk with Nicole Bianchi about what it really takes to detoxify a workplace and lead with courage and Fanatical Grace. I share lessons from 25 years in HR—how I made the move from perfectionism to authenticity, and from conflict to connection. Grace isn’t soft; it’s a bold choice to lead with empathy, hold space for imperfection, and create cultures where people thrive.
Transform Your Workplace Culture
In this compelling keynote, discover how to transform toxic workplace culture into an environment where both people and profits thrive. Perfect for CEOs, HR leaders, and managers seeking to boost engagement while driving bottom-line results.
We explored this question and more on the Let's Talk Business Podcast.
If you're ready to lead differently—or just curious about what Fanatical Grace™ could do for your team—let’s connect. I’d love to hear what you’re building and how I can help.
📧 alan@mycoachnextdoor.com
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